In Russia, some things are more complicated than they appear, and sex on the first date is among them. There is a widespread belief that Russian women prefer to avoid sex on the first date. There could be a myriad of reasons, but the most commonly cited is doubt.
Thoughts about possible negative consequences of an innocent one-night-stand seem to preoccupy the minds of many Russian women. Some polls show that a substantial portion of Russian men echo this view.
One psychologist dealing with male-female relationships said that 25 percent of men who she interviewed agreed that they need a period of a cat-and-mouse play before the first sex.
Most men we talked to are very enthusiastic about the chance to have sex on the first date. For Russian women, the old-fashioned three-date rule is also dead.
Often, for sex to happen fast a girl simply needs to be attracted to a man. In sexual matters, being blunt might be acceptable in other cultures, but it kills the mood for Russians. He said he liked me and didn't mind having sex. That was so odd! In Russia, a man would ask a girl out for a beer, pump her with booze, and try to seduce or molest her. I still can't understand what I feel about this polite invitation. Click here to learn the dangerous hidden meanings behind common sweet nothings.
