While in Los Angeles, as also a Muslim man of West African descent, a moroccan male friend of my Mosque invited me in Morocco to meet a girl for marriage. I have always wanted to marry a great muslim woman. I traveled there and meet a nice women "hijab wearing" praying all the time and on time.
At our first meeting that girl was telling me: "I do not like to go to any public place, I do not listen to musics, I do not watch movies etc We agreed to get married and to make her join me with a US fiancee visa.
From my Los Angeles friend, this girl was the best of her family. At my knowledge and by meeting her family members I found out something was wrong with every single member of her family. Things like she could just stay 3 months before divorcing with her ex husband abroad in France, her male sibling were all into drugs I explained her that I am African and that I am very well aware of the high rate of Moroccans using people living in the USA or other Western countries.
I said her that as Muslims I want the Quran to be the guaranty or kind of witness of our relationship. And that if she is marrying me for her papers to be aware that it will not work with our case. I told her she would be lying to the holy Quran if she is playing with our relationship. She ended-up by accepting my proposal. I paid all and spent so much from her visa, immigration filing fees, her financial support, ceremonies, flight tickets I moved from Los Angeles to another State where life style was slower.
This girl was so fake in being great to me until we file for her green card which is her adjustment of status. I and you could not believe her sudden change. She would be sick or pretend to be sick all the time. She would hardly accept being intimate with me, she would be a new movie watcher girl, I would be every day asked to bring her for shopping or to somewhere where we got to spent crazy.
