When you first met your girl she seemed perfect; confident, charming, and sweet. Was it a trap? Was she faking being that perfect? Not necessarily! Women tend to act that way and so do a few men when they have feelings of insecurity. It might be something you did, or a scar that was left long before you came into the picture. Keep Her Posted Yes, you are not seven years old, and she is not your mother, but letting your girl know where you are going and what you are up to throughout the day is only natural for a mature, stable relationship.
This will build trust between you both, and develop the bond between you. Remember to never lie about where you are or where you are going unless you are preparing a major surprise for her! A good way to avoid this craziness and calm down this volcano before it erupts, is to clue in your girl often enough. Talk to her about your random thoughts, or what bothered you today, or what made you smile.
It might seem silly, but these tiny clues will put her heart and mind at ease, making her believe that you have nothing to hide. When you notice something that you like about her say it out loud; she needs to hear it and it will boost her confidence and make her know that you still find her attractive. Belong To Her Stay connected to her throughout your outings. If you are not sitting together, make eye contact frequently enough to show her that you remember her.
When everyone is laughing about something, look at her at that instant; sharing a hilarious moment will strengthen your bond, and will make her feel that you care about sharing the moment with her. Always make sure she has company to hang out with and that she is comfortably seated, especially if she is hanging out with your crowd.
To show you care without saying a word, lead her from one room to the other by gently placing your hand on her back. If you are sitting beside her, touch or hold her hand, wrap your arm around her, or even just subtly tap her hand or back. Forget Her Not If you are travelling or spending the day apart, the worst thing you can do other than flirting or sleeping with another girl is not to contact her at all.
